Shannon begins

Hi D.G

i have written to you before about writing by grandpa's biography due to his dementia.

i am slowly getting through his diaries and i'm planning to start writing soon but how to i begin?

do i write in 3rd person?

how should i write it - personal (from my point of view), like i don't really know him all that well or like a fictional story... i'm not really sure, and inspiration or tips that you could give my that could make this even the little bit more easy, i would be very greatful.

Thanks Shannon


Hi Shannon-- so good to hear from you. I'm excited that you are about to begin. I have a few suggestions on how to write about your Grandpa:

Think of him as someone you have never met before. As you write about the things you learned from the diaries, his character will become clear to you, and you'll be able to see the whole person, not just the Grandpa you know.

It's always a good idea to go through your notes and pick out the chunks of his life that you'd like to write about. You can start with a list and stick to it or not. You will think of more stories and memories that don't exactly follow your outline. This is perfect because it adds more to the picture you are painting of your Grandpa.

For a fun, quick exercise, you might pretend you are your Grandpa writing his own story down. Use "I" instead of "he." You'll gain a whole new perspective.

Do write about yourself, writing your Grandpa's stories, Shannon, Introduce yourself and talk about why you are doing this wonderful, giving project.

I hope I have been of help and can help you in the future. I am proud to be your partner as you write along.

D.G.